Thanks to John D. at Storied Mind, I have a couple of awards.  The most recent that he graciously gave me, was the Arte Y Pico Award.  As you know, I've been a bit off center over the past few weeks, so I have been remiss in taking care of business.  I have promised to follow through but, mea culpa, I have not.

I have actually spent some time on this award.  I went to all of the blogs that I follow, to see if they had it.  I also noted who had an entire case of trophies, and who amongst them didn't have this award and whom either had no awards, or simply didn't show them.  Also, to be honest, I tossed in how well I "knew" the blogger.  As in, how often I felt compelled to comment on their blog and how often they commented on others.

Like any award, it is based on many factors and may never be entirely fair.  (We have those buttons to push on the sidebars or under our posts, but those ratings are content driven, so if we write about stars, weight loss and celebrities, we may rate in a top ten).  But I pass this award on to those who are not highly rated by other algorithms, but by their character, content and courage.

This part of the blog world is not concerned with false numbers, which is why we give each other awards.  Many of us write simply to do just that.  Many write to let the world know we they exist, that we have ideas, issues and insights that have never been spoken, validated, acknowledged or accepted.  Many are part of this new and amazing tool, the web, that shines light, signals hope and offers experience to those who seek knowledge.  We give our life stories, our truth and ourselves, so that others may gain insight,  may learn, may connect and in turn add their own tales of triumph and loss, love and wonder.  As John D said:

The ‘Arte Y Pico Award’ is given to five blogs at a time based on their creativity, design, interest of content, and contribution to the blogging community, regardless of language. To learn more about this award, click here. Part of the honor of receiving it is passing along the award to other blogs that honestly seek out the truth of their authors’ experience.


So, here are my choices for the Arte Y Pico Award:

ANONYMOUS DRIFTER, a writer who is dedicated to her blog.  A married woman with physical and mental health issues, she records her life in complete honesty and detail.  A sometimes harrowing and painful read, her blog is a triumph of strength and perseverance.

LA, a woman who is learning the language of loss.  English failed to give a word to encapsulate the meaning of her mother's death to her.  She writes with a deep, personal and evocative style.  Some of her posts are so personal, that you may need to set up a password with her.  In a time where instant gratification is a la mode, I recommend taking the time to read her on-line posts and then move to the inner sanctum.

STEPHANY, the mother we all should have been blessed with:  Fierce warrior, unflagging champion, relentless representative, embodiment of Mother's Love, self-sacrificing, stalwart support for her daughter and so much more.  This is the woman we should all look up to.  But more important, we should support.  Her daughter is in a safe place now, thanks to her incredible mother.  But Stephany is foundering and at a loss.  Stop by and give your support.  With mums like her, we may no longer need psych meds.

IMMI, a woman of uncommon caring, giving and grace.  She writes openly about her life and invites us in with her unabashed views.  The statement that is on the top right of her blog invites questions, curiosity and the sort of glimpse into a truth you may have known before:

“They cursed us. Murderer they called us. They cursed us, and drove us away. And we wept, Precious, we wept to be so alone...And we forgot the taste of bread... the sound of trees... the softness of the wind. We even forgot our own name. My Precious.”
by Gollum (LotR: RotK)

I think that Immi is leading us back to herself and in that manner, ourselves.


THINKINFYOU, a woman who is physically the absolute opposite of me!  Slim, blonde, manicured, waxed, tweezed and a laugh riot, to boot.  Through our mutual friend Eve, we met and have grown to care about each other.  Hell, I am Pig-Pen to her Howie Mandel!  So if we can find a common ground, maybe tigers could nurse piglets....Stop by her site, you'll be amazed!


So, you crazy Picos, there are some rules attached to this silly, I mean, deeply meaningful award:

You have to link back to the original Arte Y Pico site

You should also link back to the person who gave you the Award.

You should pick five other people who need to add some visual interest to their blog


I know that there are many others that deserve this award and they are not forgotten or ignored.  I am bound by rules to make limited choices, so have left many great blogs out.  But I have them on my blog rolls, so please, stop by.